Psychologists describe something called a “hierarchy of needs.”
In 1943, Abraham Maslow proposed such a hierarchy that’s fairly widely accepted. It begins with basic physical needs like food and water and progresses through five levels.
The notion is that one cannot operate consistently at a higher level if the needs at lower levels are not being met. It explains, for example, why students who come to school hungry (level 1) are less able to learn efficiently (level 5).
According to Maslow, the top of the chart, the peak human need, was referred to as Self-Actualization – essentially becoming the very best version of yourself.
Aspects of self-actualization include creativity, spontaneity, and a sense of purpose, meaning, and potential. Absolutely nothing wrong with seeking to become the best I can possibly be, to do the best I can with the gifts I’ve been given.
But – Jesus was pretty clear that this isn’t the final step. Self-actualization, as an end goal, is short-sighted and selfish.
The ultimate goal for a follower of Jesus ought to be looking beyond our own skin to the needs of others. This might be called Self-Transcendence.
Developing self-transcendence isn’t easy. It’s especially difficult in a modern Western culture so immersed in consumerism and comfort. You and I are literally surrounded by carefully crafted messages encouraging us to care for ourselves, to look out for ourselves first.
Looking beyond ourselves, loving our neighbors (even those with whom we disagree), sacrificing to care for those in need – those are this sort of self-transcendent values on which Jesus said his kingdom would be built.
Self-transcendence requires a long-term viewpoint. It’s generous, trusting God’s abundance and provision. It’s The Good Samaritan, the The Prodigal Son’s father.
The obvious – and difficult – question:
Can you and I truly look beyond ourselves, our own desires, our own comfort?
Speaking for myself, I’m glad I don’t have to answer that question without Jesus’ help.