Do you believe everything happens for a reason?
I don’t–at least not in the way a lot of folks make that sort of claim. It’s a question that comes up often when I tell my story. I wrote these thoughts three years ago during our TAOS TO TUCSON Ride. Perhaps they’re appropriate in today’s somewhat chaotic, unpredictable season.
The questions following our presentation at Teen Challenge/Tucson got progressively deeper and more intense. Then the guy in the front row took the discussion to a new level.
I love the question. I’m just not sure I’m the right guy to provide the answer.
But if you’re going to tell your story and talk openly about how Jesus transformed your life, people will want to know your thoughts about difficult issues. And if you’re going to talk about courage, you need the courage to answer respectfully and honestly.
So my answer was, “No, I don’t think everything happens for a reason—not in the way most people use that statement.”
Now, I suppose, I should try to explain.
- I believe God’s in control.
- He gave us free will. We’re not robots or puppets.
- Evil exists in this world. Bad stuff happens that God doesn’t “cause.”
I absolutely do not believe God caused my injury. When I was paralyzed, Jesus stood beside me and wept.
Could God heal me? Of course, and I believe he has healed me! I don’t know why He hasn’t mended my body, but in every way that matters I am completely, totally healed. For the rest—I don’t know how that works.
I firmly believe God uses EVERYTHING for good (Romans 8:28). I believe He redeems every bit of struggle and pain—on HIS time schedule, according to HIS vision. I believe that, even when I don’t see the results I want.
So even though God didn’t cause my injury, He’s used it in powerful ways for good. But that doesn’t mean my injury happened for those reasons.
When people say, “Everything happens for a reason,” they usually mean “God made THIS happen so THAT would happen.” We’d like to see the cause/effect relationship. Somehow we think there’s comfort in knowing the “reasons” for the chaos and evil we encounter—even if the reasons are a myth.
I just don’t think it’s that simple. God didn’t need my injury to advance His work.
I believe He always works to bring good in all circumstances. That’s enough.
Those are brief thoughts about difficult issues. It’s certainly not a complete explanation. I’d love to hear your ideas and responses.
We’re in in a time of a lot of difficult circumstances and events. What do you think?
Your thoughts? Does everything happen for a reason?