“You need to tell your story.”
Becky’s been pushing me (more than usual) to incorporate the story of Rich’s Ride into this year’s FREEDOM TOUR. Not sure why, but she’s pretty smart and I’ve learned to listen to her.
Perhaps we’ll revisit some previous conversations. Here’s one from 12 years ago.
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“Why do people with the biggest challenges seem to take on the biggest challenges?”
This insightful question followed a presentation to his church’s men’s group. He went on to say something I hear a lot.
“Your dedication embarrasses me. I could do so much more, and I don’t face anything like the obstacles you face. I could never do something that hard.”
I’ve had dozens of similar conversations. A few thoughts come to mind.
The point is inspiration, never embarrassment.
Certainly I hope my efforts inspire others to consider dreaming and following big, God-sized dreams. All of us, including me, live below our capabilities. Part of my mission is to show people they don’t have to be defined by their limitations, mistakes, and failures.
If my crazy project touches a heart and nudges someone to listen to God’s voice, great.
Seems like embarrassment is about comparing, which is a waste. Dream-following isn’t about doing more or being better. Embarrassment isn’t going to inspire action. Embarrassed just means you’ll keep doing the same thing and feel bad about it or make excuses.
A lot of people take on big challenges.
Handcycle rides attract attention because they’re unusual. Whenever someone with an obvious challenge takes on a big project, people tend to notice. I leverage my “advantage” to create a platform for telling an important story.
You don’t need to be in a wheelchair or run on artificial legs to inspire others and change the world.
Stop making excuses.
Okay, I rarely say that. But the truth is that we’re all called to do what we can, where we are, with what we have. If you’d rather not answer that call right now, just be honest. Maybe it’s not the right time. Maybe you need to pray, seek wisdom, ask trusted friends for input. It’s okay.
But stop saying I can’t or I could never…
Don’t give away your story so cheaply.