Undeniably, our language has become coarser.
Internet, TV, written media – we’re in a downward spiral of harsh public expression. And while angry, destructive commentary has become “acceptable,” I’m not sure it’s helpful. “Tell it like it is” is a lazy substitute for well-crafted communication.
As a classroom teacher, I had this “language” discussion frequently. “I’ll bet you cuss sometimes,” students would say.
“That’s not the point. Any fool can blurt the first thing that pops into their brain. Maturity means being in control and choosing language to accomplish your purpose.
“I’m trying to treat you with dignity and respect. That means choosing words that bring us together and build us up, because the whole point of our classroom is connection.”
I hoped they would learn during our time together that it’s possible to tell someone we’re angry without angry, divisive words. To persuade without attacking those who disagree.
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I invest a great deal of time and effort in what I post online. Blog, social media, website – I do my best to honor the platform and the FREEDOM TOUR mission.
Can’t tell you how frequently I’m tempted to react with my signature biting sarcasm or post an angry rant. I slip occasionally, but mostly I do my best to remember who I represent.
Jesus spoke about specks and planks.
Wisdom means attending to my plank, and choosing language that builds community around love and respect.