“What’s wrong with competing if you’re trying to accomplish something positive?”
Now THAT’S a great question. The guys in the workshop were discussing self-defeating thought patterns that arise from treating life like an endless competition.
I thought for a few moments. “There’s nothing wrong with competing—in the context of a game. Just be aware that competing is always about comparing. There’s always a winner and a loser. Nothing wrong with that—in a game.
“But life isn’t a game.”
It’s been a big issue for me lately, this notion that we have to divide life into winners and losers. Seems to me this approach reflects a couple of false beliefs.
Competition assumes a belief in scarcity. There’s not enough and we have to fight for our share of a pie that’s too small. Life is a zero-sum-game in which you can only “win” if someone else “loses.”
Scripture says we live in a world of abundance in which God clearly promises He’ll provide for our needs and we’re directed to share with one another.
Competition assumes the goals are power and control. Jesus says life is about service; the last shall be first and the first shall be last.
Competition is all about comparing results on the scoreboard. Following Jesus is about doing the right things the right way, and trusting God for the outcomes.
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Occasionally someone suggests offering a prize for the person who raises the most contributions for FRONT RANGE FREEDOM TOUR ’14. The idea is that we’ll raise more money by making the fundraising a competition. They may be correct.
I’m not comfortable with the notion of making a game out of helping kids who’ve been rescued from human trafficking. Doesn’t make it wrong—it’s a personal preference, a belief that some things might be better accomplished through cooperation, working together and trusting God for the results. I’m just not sure I want to begin the ride with the notion of comparing our team members on a scoreboard.
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In many circumstances, healthy competition brings out the best in people and spurs them to explore their boundaries. Competition adds a level of fun and camaraderie that can inspire and motivate. Those are all good things.
If you’re going to play a game, play to win. Compete hard. Do your best, within the rules and with respect for your opponents.
But be careful about the lure of competition and the notion that everything ought to be turned into a game.
The most important aspects of life can’t be measured on a scoreboard. There’s a huge distinction between winners and people who win.
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