“Why do people with the biggest challenges seem to take on the biggest challenges?”
This insightful question followed a presentation to his church’s men’s group. He observed that those who’ve faced and overcome adversity often turn their efforts to some sort of extraordinary service.
He went on to say something I hear a lot. “Your dedication embarrasses me. I could do so much more and I don’t face anything like the obstacles you face, but I could never do something that hard.”
I’ve had dozens of similar conversations. A few thoughts come to mind.
The point is inspiration, never embarrassment.
I’m doing what I’m doing, following my dream, and sharing the story. But that’s me.
Certainly I hope my efforts inspire others to consider dreaming and following big, God-sized dreams. All of us, including me, live below our capabilities. Part of my mission is to show people they don’t have to be defined by their limitations, mistakes, and failures.
But none of this is meant to tell anyone what they should do. If my crazy project touches a heart and nudges someone to listen to God’s voice, great.
Seems like embarrassment is about comparing, which is usually a waste. Dream-following isn’t about doing more or being better. Embarrassment isn’t going to inspire action. Embarrassed usually means you’ll keep doing the same thing and feel bad about it or make excuses.
A lot of people take on big challenges.
Handcycle rides attract attention because they’re unusual. Whenever someone with an obvious challenge takes on a big project, people tend to notice. I leverage my “advantage” to create a platform for telling an important story.
But the world is filled with people doing amazing things. You don’t need to be in a wheelchair or run on artificial legs to inspires other and change the world.
Adversity tends to force a choice.
Some folks who face a life-changing challenge find it a bit harder to do same-old-same-old. Life seems a little more precious, and perhaps there’s an increased desire to help others who travel a similar path.
Stop making excuses.
Okay, I rarely say that. But the truth is that we’re all called to do what we can, where we are, with what we have. If you’d rather not answer that call right now, just be honest. Maybe it’s not the right time. Maybe you need to pray, seek wisdom, ask trusted friends for input. It’s okay.
But stop saying I can’t or I could never…
Don’t give away your story so cheaply.
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