Have you learned something important in a time of struggle?
The past weeks have been something of a roller coaster for me, emotionally more than physically. I’ve discovered that one helpful practice in such times is reflection.
Often by looking back at a difficult experience I find peace. I see patterns and themes that weren’t apparent. Since I’m struggling a bit this morning, I thought this would be a good time to share my real-time reflections.
Perspective matters. Jesus perceived events from an eternal, kingdom perspective, and He calls us to seek that point of view.
Events appear much different when you’re immersed in them. It helps to remind myself that what’s happening right now is a small part of something much bigger.
Platitudes don’t help. I appreciate the desire to offer a quick-fix answer, but I’m not satisfied with simplistic explanations to complex, painful problems. I loved it when one of the wisest, most prayerful men I know said, “I don’t know exactly how God speaks to me, and I’m not sure I always hear Him very well.”
God provides. Often it’s from unexpected sources or in unanticipated times, but He always provides. His provision is often big-picture and far beyond what I would have thought to ask for.
Friends change everything. I tend to isolate myself when I’m struggling. I have many friends who push past the walls and gently-but-firmly keep me involved in the communities I so desperately need.
God will work this out for good. He’s done it in tougher circumstances than this, and He promises in Romans 8:28 to always cause everything to work together for good.
I want to get better at holding these assurances in my head—and my heart—in the middle of trials. I think reflection, reminding myself, is one way to practice.
What have you learned in a time of adversity?
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